Am I really enough just the way I am?

Published on 7 April 2025 at 02:00

Dear Lyfteenites,

I remember one day standing in front of my wardrobe, trying on outfit after outfit, only to feel... off. It wasn’t just about clothes. It was about that deep ache of not feeling enough. I had just come from scrolling through social media pictures of people who seemed prettier, cooler, more confident, more outspoken, and more everything. I looked at my reflection and thought, why can’t I be more like them? Why can’t I be more... enough?

Have you ever felt that too?
"Like no matter how hard you try, you’re falling short
Not enough likes.
Not enough beauty.
Not enough confidence.
Not enough strength.
Not enough you."

And so you try to fix it. You start posting more. You act louder. You wear what “they” wear. You pretend.
But even after all that, when the day ends and you’re lying in bed with your thoughts, the question still comes back: Am I really enough?

Let me tell you something simple but powerful. Yes. You are enough.
Not because of your number of followers or how you look or what you say. Not even because of how funny, trendy, or liked you are.

You are enough because you were created with value. You were designed on purpose by a God who sees beauty in every detail of you, your flaws, quirks, and all.

The world says you have to be more. But there's a sure word for you in Psalm 139:14

“I thank you because I am a fearfully and wonderfully made person; I am well aware of how lovely your works are."

You’re not a mistake. You’re not late. You’re not missing out on anything because of who you are.
You’re wonderfully made just as you are. You are the unique version of you.

But I know… believing that isn’t always easy.
Social media makes it so easy to compare yourself to people who only show the best version of themselves. School can make you feel invisible. Friends might not always get you, and sometimes your own thoughts can scream louder than the truth.

But here’s a thought:

"What if you stopped chasing perfection and started embracing progress?
What if you stopped comparing and started celebrating what makes you stand out?
What if you trusted that God didn’t mess up when He made you?"

Because here's the truth: your uniqueness is your superpower.
You don’t need filters to be beautiful.
You don’t need a crowd to feel worthy.
You don’t need to change to belong.

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you; before you were born I set you apart…” – Jeremiah 1:5
God saw you before anyone could label you or rank you.
“Even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” – Luke 12:7


Lyfteenites, you are worth more than you know. Even on days when you don’t feel pretty, strong, cool, or smart, or on days when you feel unseen. Even when the world changes its mind about you, God doesn’t. His love for you never fades.

So today, I want you to pause, take a deep breath, and say this out loud:

“I am enough not because of what I do, but because of who I am in God.”

Say it until it sinks in. Write it down. Put it on your wall. Whisper it to yourself when doubt tries to creep in.
Because the world doesn’t need a copy of someone else. It needs the real you.
The beautifully, fearfully, wonderfully you.

You are loved. You are seen. You are enough.

“The Lord your God is with you… He will take great delight in you… He will rejoice over you with singing.” – Zephaniah 3:17

 

With so much love,
Your friend at Lyfteen Hub

 

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